We all struggle with rejection and how to deal with it. But she was specifically addressing men who lash out when you aren’t a match for them. I once had a young guy start an online conversation with me, when I told him he was too young for me, he accused me of narcissism and said I was old and ugly anyway. This from the guy who started by saying,”Hey beautiful.” Im pretty sure I didn’t change. What did was his level of anger when I was honest about the age difference. Maybe there are women who also respond with anger and hateful comments. If that is your experience you can blog about it. This person who “calls herself a psychotherapist “ has always responded rationally and kindly to the men who respectfully reject me.