This is a great balanced review of the topic of bad boys and good guys. I agree with Elle Beau, that confidence is what most women find most attractive, which may indeed be cockiness. Healthy choices allow for vulnerability as well. Men of all “types” can cultivate the authentic version of both traits.

Psychotherapist, Hypnotherapist. Leans Left. Mindfulness practioner before it was cool. M.Ed., LPC. Carolsantafe93@gmail.com.

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