This is both valid and supportive. Thank you for affirming people who love “regular” sex. In a committed relationship, though, it is possible to experiment with what each person likes in a respectful and playful way. This can lead to learning to enjoy either what your partner likes, or to enjoy watching their enjoyment.

Psychotherapist, Hypnotherapist. Leans Left. Mindfulness practioner before it was cool. M.Ed., LPC. Carolsantafe93@gmail.com.

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