My therapist had us go home, get naked in front of a mirror and focus ONLY on the things we liked about our bodies. It was tough. First, I had to shift away from focusing on what I perceived as negative. But over the years, I have gotten quite good at it. I now ask my self-loathing clients to do it. You might want to give it a try and let me know how it goes. You may want to start by loving those strong, beautifully “thick” legs.

Psychotherapist, Hypnotherapist. Leans Left. Mindfulness practioner before it was cool. M.Ed., LPC. Carolsantafe93@gmail.com.

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