J Apple Muncy, I must not be writing clearly enough for you to misunderstand me so completely. I am a sex positive therapist, whose clientele include transgender, pansexual, bisexual, hetero-flexible, gay, lesbian, heterosexual, cis-gender, and non-binary. In at least two articles I state that in a better sexual environment men should not have to be pursuers. Does that sound traditional? There is a lot of pressure on men, women, and non-binaries about sex. I propose to relieve it. Pun intended.