It does help me understand. I was referring more to you citing articles by women shaming her for the plastic surgery. The ones I’ve read were also demanding she “age gracefully” and one in particular ordered her to quit performing and go take care of her grandchildren. This was written by a younger woman of color. I think your original point is accurate and well researched. The “controversy “ should only be about the surgery that didn’t go well, not her age or gender. But people have made it about age and gender.