I just read his article after your referencing it here. I ain’t mad at him. My concern, as a therapist, is his desire to please everyone, which is absolutely not possible. Dating a woke white woman should get as many points as dating a woman of color who isn’t woke. But even better, is to educate each other in a “mixed” relationship, so that while not appropriating, we can learn, and empathize, and to as much of a degree as possible fold into one another’s cultures, without abandoning that of our own that are important.