I appreciate your input Joe Duncan ( see what I did there?). May I point out two obvious pertinent things?

1. You don’t have a vagina
2. Women don’t have a prostate

I’m glad you added your addendum to your first response. Women (and they are legion) who have suffered numerous yeast and bacterial infections, both vaginal and bladder, are not eager to introduce any type of bacteria into the vagina. Why do you think women are urged to wipe front to back?

The stimulation of the prostate is what makes anal sex pleasurable for men. Women don’t have one. And not even all gay men enjoy or are the receivers of anal sex.