As a therapist, I see a lot of irrational emotional responses to compliments that arise from low self esteem in men and women. As a woman, I clearly see the difference in a compliment and admiration versus harassment. As a feminist, I abhor harassment, but I want to be admired for my femininity and the work I put in to keep a healthy body. We are hard wired as a species to notice and be attracted to healthy, strong bodies, so as to propagate the species. (Check out my Medium blog “So It’s Time To Write About Sex Agin Because…) I hope, soon, we will define the difference in harassment and genuine admiration. And, as to your question about whether heterosexual women admire the male physique as we watch sports? Hell yeah.

I am equally sure gay men admire those same athletes’ bodies, and lesbian women admire female athletes bodies. and frankly, I also admire strong female bodies, even as I acknowledge, and encourage in my clients, the right of every woman to rejoice in her body whether it is “perfect” or not.

Psychotherapist, Hypnotherapist. Leans Left. Mindfulness practioner before it was cool. M.Ed., LPC. Carolsantafe93@gmail.com. Www.Newsbreak.com/@c/561037

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