Amen, my sister. I am the same. If I annoy, or even upset some people, that’s okay, because at least it will cause them to stop and think before they speak. I’ve been correcting racists (who think if I am white, they can say racist things to me) since I was 14. It’s been even more urgent and more effective now that I can counter with the fact that my Black son would be hurt by what they just said.