Actually, your article is why I mentioned you in mine. You have done an excellent job of explaining how to go about anal sex safely and enjoyably for both parties involved. I respect your work highly. I’m a sex positive therapist who believes anything we do sexually that doesn’t hurt others is good. My article was in support of those of us women who don’t practice anal sex, nor want to be talked into it. It was also a shout out to the article by Shannon Ashley.