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Clitorises and Penises, oh my

A Question for People With Penises

What if your lovers only played with the glans of your penis

Carol Lennox. LPC, M.Ed.

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Now that I’ve got your attention. Photo by Wesley Tingey on Unsplash

I have a question for those of you with a penis. Would you be satisfied if a lover only stimulated the glans?

For those without penises who may not know, the glans is the top of the penis that looks like an old-fashioned fireman’s hat.

Yes it does. See the linked story below.

The glans of the penis is very sensitive. It can be stimulated in many ways-licking, sucking, rubbing — and doing so can lead to orgasm for the penis owner. However, it will possibly be less satisfying than if the entire penis — glans and shaft — is stimulated. And don’t forget the prostate, which is under the testicles and in front of the anus.

The same is true for a clitoris.

If you don’t know where the parts are, how can you stimulate them? You can’t.

Don’t feel bad if you don’t know all the parts of the clitoris. Most of us — even those who own a clitoris — had never seen a diagram of the entire clitoris until recently.

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Carol Lennox. LPC, M.Ed.
Carol Lennox. LPC, M.Ed.

Written by Carol Lennox. LPC, M.Ed.

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